I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and author of Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships," Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing Your True Self and Codependency for Dummies. and the 7 ebooks, including 10 Steps to Self-Esteem: The Ultimate Guide to Stop Self-Criticism, Spiritual Transformation in the Twelve Steps, "I'm Not Perfect - I'm Only Human" - How to Beat Perfectionism, Freedom from Guilt and Blame - Finding Self-Forgiveness, and How to Speak Your Mind: Become Assertive and Set Limits.
As an expert on narcissism, relationships, and codependency, I've worked with countless individuals and couples for more than 35 years to recover from trauma and codependency. See my websites, www.whatiscodependency.com and www.darlenelancer.com for FREE podcasts, meditations, and resources. Join my blog mailing list and to get a free report on 14 Steps for Letting Go.
I maintain a private practice in Santa Monica, and coach people internationally. See my website Services page for an appointment.