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How Core Beliefs Run Your Life - For Good or BadFoolproof Ways to Use Assertiveness to Request a RaiseTips for Using Social Media in a Healthy Manner- Bad Belief Systems You Must Lose if You Want to WIN - Part 9 Stuff-ism - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2020 from Ronald RossIf stuff-ism were a religion, the local self-storage rental facility would be the place of worship. In America today, there are 1.7 billion square feet of self-storage space for rent. Most of the sites run at a consistent 90% occupancy with an individual monthly fee of around $90. Why do ...
Views: 704 - I Am Worthy Affirmations: Law Of Attraction Affirmations - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2020 from Iona KristinaIn this article are 41 I am worthy affirmations that you can recite daily to develop more confidence and increase your self-esteem. These will help amplify positive thoughts and feelings, and will assist in attracting pleasing outcomes in your life. Let's begin. I am worthy. I am worthy ...
Views: 837 - **What Will They Think? - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2020 from Judi MoreoMost of us were taught we should be concerned about what others think about us and should seek their approval for all that we do. We sometimes hear a little voice in our head that actually says, “What will they think?” or “If you fail, you’ll look like a fool.” I bet you can look back at ...
Views: 996 - Self-Image: Can Childhood Trauma Define How Someone Sees Themselves? - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone might not be aware of how they see themselves, it doesn’t mean that this won’t be something that will have a massive impact on every area of their life. They can be so caught up in their own self-image that they won’t even realise that it is just an idea that they have of who ...
Views: 724 - Bad Belief Systems You Must Lose if You Want to WIN - Part 7 FAILURE-ISM - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2020 from Ronald Ross"Failure-ism" is a word I invented to describe the belief that everything you do ultimately fails. You can recognize this flawed belief system in a person when they say things like, "I'm just a loser" and "Nothing I try ever works." Unfortunately, each of us has evidence to prove we fail. ...
Views: 1048 - Self-Worth: Can Childhood Trauma Stop Someone From Developing Self-Worth? - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to take a step back and to reflect on when they feel good about themselves and when they don’t, they may notice a pattern. What they may start to see is that when they receive positive feedback from others, and shortly after this has taken place, they feel good. Yet, if they ...
Views: 746 - Your Destiny is in Your Hand: Think about getting success - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2020 from EVERYDAY READPhoto by Darius Bashar on Unsplash[/caption] Destiny is not written in the stars. It is just a replication of your thoughts, your actions, and your behavior. When you think about getting success, you will have to act accordingly and change your thoughts for your future construction. Your ...
Views: 717 - How to Forgiving Yourself If You Want to Move On? - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2020 from Jaclyn TengHuman beings are complicated. There is no yardstick to measure if someone is fundamentally good or bad. You simply can’t weigh someone’s character in the entirety of good or bad because we are made of both good and bad in equal parts. However, it is on us to pick the side and stick to it by ...
Views: 564(1 vote) - Self-Improvement Companies In Houston - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2020 from Steve ScottWhen looking for self-improvement companies in Houston, the area I live and work in, you will find many options. Many of them focus strictly on the individual. And, that is an excellent place to start. Some are focused more on the business side of things with the result being that you will ...
Views: 714 - *Do You Criticize Yourself? - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2020 from Judi MoreoDo you criticize yourself? Do you say mean and disrespectful things to you? Do you look at yourself and think nasty things about who and what you are? STOP IT! Stop talking to yourself in a negative voice. And, stop talking to others about your negative traits. The more you concentrate ...
Views: 1169 - ***Do You Have the Habit of “Anchoring?” - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2020 from Judi MoreoMy dad was a successful salesman. He carried a little spiral notebook with his appointments, notes to himself, important names and numbers. One day, he dropped the notebook on the floor and when it fell open, I saw it had gold stars pasted on most of the pages. I asked him why a grown man ...
Views: 1199 - False Self: Is The Need To Rescue Others Part Of The False-Self? - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperFor as far back as one can remember, they may see that they have had the inclination to save or rescue others. As a result of this, they will be used to being there for others and doing what they can to ‘help’ them. For so long, it would have seemed as though they were doing the right thing, ...
Views: 674 - ***Are You Trying to Be Perfect? - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2020 from Judi MoreoAre you a person who needs things to be perfect? Do you try to have a perfectly clean house, perfectly spotless car, perfect kids, perfect spouse, perfect hair style, perfect wardrobe? Does absolutely everything of yours need to be perfect? If so, you are not only putting a lot of pressure ...
Views: 1151 - Self-Knowledge: Why Do Some People Have The Tendency To Demonise Others? - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to watch an old black and white film, they could describe it as being a bit one-dimensional. There will be two colours, black and white, and there will even be some grey, but that will be it. After this, they could end up watching a film that has recently been released, with it ...
Views: 622 - Eliminate Fear of Rejection and Never be Afraid to Speak in Front of an Audience Again - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2020 from Steven StasczakMost people have either had a bad experience with public speaking or have avoided getting up in front of an audience fearing that they may be rejected for one reason or another. In either case the mere thought of getting up in front of an audience and failing or feeling like the audience is ...
Views: 893 - Receiving: Why Do Some People Feel Guilty When They Receive? - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperOn one side, there is receiving, and, on the other, there is giving. Now, although it would be easy to say that each of these elements is as important as each other, this is not the case. One of these things is more important than the other and this is because if one of them doesn’t take ...
Views: 690 - Healing Journey: What Are The Signs Of Growth On The Healing Journey? - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperFor some people, their early years were a time when they received what they needed to receive in order to become a resilient, integrated and secure adult. Thanks to what took place during this stage of their life, their adult years may be pretty ‘normal’. So, they could have gone through the ...
Views: 613 - ***Do You Sometimes Feel Depressed? - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2020 from Judi MoreoLet's face it! Life is not always easy, and for some of us, depression very often takes over, We get depressed when we are discouraged or disappointed in ourselves or our lives. We start to feel as though we can’t live up to the expectations of others….or even our own expectations. We feel ...
Views: 1406 - Being Seen: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Have A Fear Of Being Seen? - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to take a step back and to reflect on how they behave around others, they could find that they have the tendency to lose themselves and to be who other people want them to be. It could be as though a button has been pressed, causing their behaviour to completely change. As a ...
Views: 556 - ***Are You Starved For Attention? - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2020 from Judi MoreoMost people enjoy people showing an interest in them. I know I do. But, there are some people who just have to be the center of attention. They talk incessantly about themselves, their accomplishments, what they own, who they know, where they have been, and even, the illnesses they have ...
Views: 1147 - Top 10 Business Ideas With Low Investment- High-Profit Ideas - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2020 from Answers DuniyaAre you a college student? Are you a teenager who just completed school? Are you looking for business ideas with low investment and high profit? I welcome you here in this article which can end your search of looking for ideas that can give you an opportunity of learning, growing as well as ...
Views: 606 - 5 ingenious ways to boost the self- esteem in children - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2020 from Tarak YagnikChildren, especially when they are in their formative years, are in constant need of being recognized for the effort they have been putting. This has a relationship with psychology, as most of the rules of socialization are unwritten, children learn about social cues by a process named ...
Views: 431 - ***Are You A Negativity Seeker? - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2020 from Judi MoreoRecently, I was sitting next to a woman at a meeting who turned to me and said, “Do you know any good gossip about any of these people here? I just love to hear the dirt on everyone.” Wow! What a way to go through life…looking for negativity and what she could find wrong with others and their ...
Views: 1082 - False-Self: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Create A False-Self? - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIn an ideal world perhaps, every adults early years would have been a time when they were given what they needed to develop in the right and were prepared for the real world. This would mean that their caregivers did what they were supposed to do. Their caregivers wouldn’t have seen them as ...
Views: 613 - Being Seen: Can Childhood Trauma Set Someone Up To Believe That They Need To Hide Themselves? - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperFor some people, it will be hard for them to accept that someone would be able to hide themselves when they are around others. In their eyes, this will be seen as something that could only take place if they were away from others. Here, someone would be away from others and this would prevent ...
Views: 530 - ***Were You Compared to Others? - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2020 from Judi MoreoWhen I was a child, I had a favorite cousin, Bobbie. She was pretty, smart, kind, and really fun to be around. We always looked forward to spending time together. As we grew older, we lived in different cities and didn’t get to see each other so often. I lived closer to my grandmother than ...
Views: 1090 - Self-Worth: Can It Be Hard For Someone To Just Be If They Feel Worthless? - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to self-worth, this could be seen as something that is an inherent part of someone. Unlike self-esteem, then, it is not something that is defined by how other people respond to them. Taking this into account, the former is what will allow someone to feel good about themselves ...
Views: 511 - Self-Awareness: Does the Ego-Mind Make It Hard For Someone To Face Their Inner Wounds? - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperThere are a number of things that are part of the human experience, and having inner wounds is one of them. It doesn’t matter how good someone’s early years were or how good their adult years have been, they will have baggage. Nonetheless, although having inner wounds is part of the human ...
Views: 510 - Letting Go Off Self-Hate Doesn’t Happen Overnight - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone may hate themselves, it doesn’t mean that they will actually realise this. What this means is that this will be something that is just outside of their conscious awareness. However, not being aware of this won’t mean that their life won’t be affected by what is taking ...
Views: 561 - 7 steps to build unbreakable self-esteem - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2020 from Alexander ReichWe all search for ways to improve our self-esteem. You see people like Trump, or movie stars, and see them being so secure in themselves, it has to be the money. But you’re wrong. Self-esteem has nothing to do with money and everything with what you do and did. So let me give you 7 steps ...
Views: 584 - ***Where Do Our Beliefs About Ourselves Come From? - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2020 from Judi MoreoMost of our beliefs about ourselves have come from outside sources: people, education, and experiences. Many of us have allowed the opinions of others to become our opinions of ourselves. We’ve listened to people tell us things about ourselves and then we’ve internalized, processed, and ...
Views: 1254 - How To Feel Secure In Insecure Times by Rita Burgett-Martell - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2020 from Rita MartellIn 2020 we are faced with very real threats to our health and financial security that many of us have never experienced and never thought we would. This has been a rapid unexpected and unwanted change that we must deal with. Fear prevents us from thinking clearly about what we can do to minimize ...
Views: 724(1 vote) - ***Confidence - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2020 from Judi MoreoWhy is it that having confidence in ourselves and our abilities is so hard? Why do so many of us have the tendency to overestimate others and underestimate ourselves? And, why are we so concerned about what other people think about us? I believe if we are ever going to be able to answer ...
Views: 1145 - Developing Self-Belief Doesn't Happen Overnight - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is in a position where they lack self-belief, they may look into what they can do to develop it. Then again, they could merely put up with what is taking place and do their best to carry on as normal. The reason for this is that they may believe that there is nothing that they can ...
Views: 658 - Critical Thinking: Does The Establishment Want People To Have A Victim/Perpetrator Consciousness? - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperThere are numerous ways in which someone can perceive life and while some of these ways will be empowering, others will be disempowering. Ergo, if someone believes that the world is a safe place overall and that people are generally kind, they are likely to experience life in a certain ...
Views: 545 - Toxic Shame: What Can Happen If Someone Disconnects From Their Toxic Shame? - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperThere are feelings that can be seen as being ‘positive’ and then there are feelings that can be seen as being ‘negative’. When it comes to how a feeling is perceived, it is likely to depend on the impact that it has on someone’s mood. If a feeling causes one to feel good, it can be seen in a ...
Views: 551 - Happiness: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Feel Guilty For Being Happy? - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone can have the need to be happy, it doesn’t mean that they will feel comfortable being happy. Consequently, they can end up doing just about everything that they can to make sure that they are never happy. Still, while they will be sabotaging their own happiness, it doesn’t ...
Views: 542 - Self-Sabotage: Can Someone Sabotage Their Life If They Are Carrying Self-Hate? - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperNow, even though someone can want to achieve something or to improve their life in general, it doesn’t mean that they won’t hold themselves back. But, while they can hold themselves back, this can be something that they are not even aware of. Consequently, what is going on externally will be ...
Views: 502 - “What You Resist, Persists” - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperA number of years ago, I heard the saying, ‘what you resist, persists’. When I first heard it stood out but it didn’t really mean much, but as time has gone by and my understanding of it has changed, it has gradually come to mean a lot. Anyway, a few days ago I came across this quote whilst I ...
Views: 702 - “Shame Is A Soul Eating Emotion” - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhile I was looking through some of Carl Jung quotes, one that stood out was ‘“Shame Is A Soul Eating Emotion”. When I saw this, it reminded me of something that I said about toxic shame a number of years ago. In at least two articles, I said that in the same way that acid destroys things, ...
Views: 733 - 5 Great Tips To Stay Motivated Every Day - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2020 from Carren DarioWhen your vision is clear then it is quite easy to set objectives for yourself. You are clear about your goals and you know all the steps to reach there. But even knowing the process, it becomes hard to cope up with things sometimes. It gets hard to work with the same persistence and ...
Views: 491 - How to meditate properly? - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2020 from Sri TulasiWho am I – Where did I come from – What is my life’s purpose - Where am I going. We spend almost every waking moment seeking the answers from outside of ourselves. The cacophony of answers from outside can confuse and may even at times overwhelm us. Meditation allows us to go within ...
Views: 569 - How to change the negative thoughts? - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2020 from Sri TulasiIt's quite common for both negative and positive thoughts to pop up in your mind . Here is an activity through which you can deal turn each negative thought to positive thought is Write down your thoughts Take a sheet of paper write your negative thought and next to it write anything ...
Views: 534 - How spirituality make you happy? - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2020 from Sri TulasiSpirituality is a way of being , path of self-knowledge, a correct vision of the creation and Great spirit and also about the composition of the multidimensional creation. If you have a spiritual vision of yourself ,brothers /sisters and the multidimensional big reality ,if you realize that ...
Views: 720(1 vote) - Critical Thinking: Does The Establishment Want People To Have A Victim Mentality? - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf one was to take a step back and to reflect on what has been taking place in the western world for a number of years now, what they may come to conclude is that there appears to be a lot of people that have a highly developed victim mentality. Irrespective of whether they have come across ...
Views: 554 - Self-Improvement Tips For Success - by Submitted on May 21, 2020 from Steve ScottAny person who is interested in self-improvement welcomes hearing any self-improvement tips for success. When I hear a tip I may say, “Wow, that is great! I can apply that immediately.” Or, “That’s good but it really doesn’t resonate with me.” Whatever resonates with you at the time are ...
Views: 626 - ‘Men have a Strong Aversion To Shame’ - by Submitted on May 15, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIn the book ‘Manhood’ by Steve Biddulph, there is a section where he says that “a deep aversion to shame has become wired in to male biology.” The reason that is put forward for is that “throughout history, women are most sexually attracted to high-status males”. What this means is that if a ...
Views: 646 - Warning! Unexamined Habits are Sabotaging Your Self-Growth - by Submitted on May 13, 2020 from Jessica McMohenAre you sabotaging your self-growth efforts unknowingly by indulging in habits with an unknown impact? All of our habits have a far-reaching impact on other people and the planet. Self-improvement is rooted in examining your thoughts, ideas, and habits and rooting out ineffective behaviors ...
Views: 787 - If You Have Fallen, You Will Rise Again - by Submitted on May 13, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperThe other day, I was thinking about the moments in my life when I have had setbacks and what has often gone through my head when this has taken place. When I think about what happens, it’s a bit like I’m in one season. During this time, and irrespective of what season it is, part of me ...
Views: 732 - Do You Believe That You Need To Hide Your True-Self In Order To Survive? - by Submitted on May 11, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperYou may find that when you are around others, you don’t always show up. In fact, this could be something that more or less always takes place when you spend time with others. This could be how you have been for as long as you can remember. If you have only just started to become aware of ...
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