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- Your New Start Begins Now - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2023 from Rita RockerSo what happens when we need a new start? How do we actually get through the amazing transformation our Creator has for us, going from that caterpillar to becoming the soaring, beautiful butterfly? You are definitely not alone in the unpleasant struggle. A metamorphosis is defined here in a ...
Views: 316 - Kicking Your Way Out of the Box! - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2020 from Rita RockerSometimes, the life of a “mature” person must be completely shaken, shifted and reshuffled to bring them to where they were meant to be in the first place! Some events are beyond our control that make those transforming shifts necessary: losing a job, children moving back home, a health crisis ...
Views: 1314 - Kicking Your Way Out of the Box! - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2020 from Rita RockerSometimes, the life of a “mature” person must be completely shaken, shifted and reshuffled to bring them to where they were meant to be in the first place! Some events are beyond our control that make those transforming shifts necessary: losing a job, children moving back home, a health crisis ...
Views: 1200 - Giving a Confident Presentation? Yes I Am! - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2019 from Rita RockerOh yes, there are actually more people in the world who are afraid of speaking in front of others than in dying. Wow! Surveys show 54% of adults are in this category. What are we afraid of? Messing up? Being rejected? Feeling foolish? Unsure if our audience will think we don’t know what we ...
Views: 707(1 vote) - Exemplary Leadership Has Nothing To Do With Your Title! - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2019 from Rita RockerNot all respected and admirable leaders are in actual designated “leadership positions.” We all have the opportunity to be a high quality leader every day, in whatever capacity the day calls for, whether it is with those in our same household or when conducting business worldwide. Key to ...
Views: 709 - Deal Yourself a New Hand in the Game of Life! - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2019 from Rita RockerIf you don’t like the hand you have been dealt in the game of life, create a new game!!! Sometimes, life’s changes and challenges can but tough, disappointing and confusing. They may come on so quickly we wonder “what happened” and “how will I ever manage beyond this?” They can also open the ...
Views: 810 - Leaving Yes-butville for Can-Do City! - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2019 from Rita RockerMoving Sale! Oh the freedom when you leave Yes-butville for Can-Do City! I once read that no material in the world is as resilient as the human spirit! However, every word and deed can affect that spirit. Relationships impact us immediately from the moment we are born and some experts say ...
Views: 755 - Pursuing Your Dreams - Let's Go! - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2019 from Rita RockerWhatever is happening in your life right now, it is time to dust off those dreams and work towards fulfilling your destiny, the one created just for you. The one that has filled your heart and mind with a passion that you have never been able to fully let go of because...it's who you are meant ...
Views: 1041 - Kicking Your Way Out of the Box!! - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2019 from Rita RockerSometimes, the life of a "mature person" must be completely shaken, shifted and reshuffled to bring them to where they were meant to be in the first place! Some events are beyond our control that make those shifts necessary: losing a job, children moving back home, a health crisis or death of a ...
Views: 869 - Being An Exemplary Leader Has Nothing To Do With Title! - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2019 from Rita RockerNot all leaders are in actual designated “leadership positions.” We have the opportunity to be a high quality leader every day, in whatever capacity the day calls for, whether it is with those in our same household or with business people worldwide. Good leaders have the ability to lead and ...
Views: 1477(3 votes) - Introductions and Mingling: How Do I Conduct Myself? - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2019 from Rita RockerMany people are uncomfortable mingling during business networking or other public events. Are you one who is often worried about what people will think of you? The easiest way to get around that is to put our focus on "them". How? First of all, look for people who appear somewhat lonely, ...
Views: 2983 - The Road to Self-Confidence is a Steady Progression. Eight steps to get there fast! - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2012 from Rita RockerHas your foot been on the brake? If so, it's time to take your foot off the brake and get back behind the wheel of your life. Proclaim, “I will not stop my journey too soon. It’s time to get out and overcome every obstacle in my way!” Here are eight steps that you can take: 1. Imagine ...
Views: 1409 - Your Professional Image Movie: What Are You Projecting? - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2012 from Rita RockerThere is no doubt about it! How you see yourself and believe others see you determines how successful you will become. Sit back and relax, grab some coffee, and answer the following questions: • What messages do you give to your peers, superiors, friends and family? Are you projecting ...
Views: 1277 - Total Leadership: Oh the Power of Our Words! - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2012 from Rita RockerAs my chapter in Total Leadership for Men and Women says, “We are the architects of our own lives. What are we building? How high do we want to go?” What are we creating on a daily basis? As speakers and writers, we are all leaders, influencers and motivators by what we share with others, ...
Views: 1407(1 vote) - Communications Checklist: 11 Easy and Effective Tips for Dynamite Business Relationships! - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2012 from Rita RockerEnjoy the positive rapport and results that come from these easy and effective tips when working with external (and internal) customers: •Check your body language, words and voice. Your non-verbal signals tell the real story of how you feel. Ensure that if your words are positve, the body and ...
Views: 1294 - 17 Quick Tips for Successfully Mixing Meals With Business! - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2012 from Rita RockerToday, more than ever, deals are sealed at the dining table. If we are not comfortable doing business over a meal, we may be losing business. Strength and making tough decisions ARE compatible with good manners. Many executives and managers are well-educated, but not in social skills. We ...
Views: 1323 - Seeking a New Career? Package Yourself as a Skills Merchant! - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2012 from Rita RockerThe job market is tough and if you’ve been unemployed for a while or looking to get into a whole new career area, it may be necessary to trade in the chronological resume for one that focuses on all of your awesome skills and experiences rather than previous job titles. A good example: when I ...
Views: 1300 - Make Hiring Managers Ravings Fans of Yours! - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2012 from Rita RockerFollowing is my Clear Channel Radio interview discussing powerful steps to greater career success: 1. What is the most important piece of advice you can give someone seeking a new career opportunity? Put yourself in the hiring manager’s shoes. It’s all about them! They will make decisions ...
Views: 1231 - Use Your Business Card as a Powerful Networking Tool - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2012 from Rita RockerMany important business deals are conducted during functions outside of the 8-5 world. Doing business within a global economy requires that we pay attention to other customs and protocol, including our professional calling cards. Particularly in international circles, business cards explain our ...
Views: 1144 - Holy Mackerel, Don't Give Up! Shatter Your Obstacles! - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2012 from Rita RockerI once read an article about knocking down barriers that keep us from reaching our goals. It is amazing how much two fish can tell us about our own human nature. In the study, a barracuda and a mackerel were put in a glass tank with a clear glass partition placed between them. For two days the ...
Views: 1301 - Go For the Gusto! Grab Your Own Brass Ring! - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2012 from Rita RockerSeveral years ago, I read the story of how the term “reaching for the brass ring” originated. This phrase has always symbolized striving for, and achieving, one’s goals. The carousels of long ago were huge circular wooden platforms with hand-carved, brightly painted panels and beautiful wooden ...
Views: 1857 - You had me at hello: telephone skills to keep them coming back! - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2012 from Rita RockerEver heard a cranky, indiferent voice on the other end of the line? Whoa! “Excuse me for calling! I was seeking a new service provider but it looks like you are not it!” How many times does that happen? Relationships and business are lost every day due to poor phone manners, because the receiver ...
Views: 1936 - Know how to sell yourself? Try this proven technique - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2012 from Rita RockerPeople often make the mistake of giving their 30-second commercial immediately upon meeting someone new. I might add: “whether they want to hear it or not!” A professional portfolio is particularly valuable if you are seeking a new career opportunity. First meetings at business or social ...
Views: 1162 - Confidence + Charisma = Clients - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2012 from Rita RockerWe constantly transmit messages to those around us that reveal our level of self-confidence, self-respect, and whether we deem ourselves worthy and capable of acquiring their business. Stop and think about what signals you transfer that prompt others to want do business with you. Do they ...
Views: 1079 - Are your body and mouth saying the same thing? - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2012 from Rita RockerEvery day we present our thoughts and ideas to business prospects, teachers, organizations, coworkers and family. Whether you are giving a sales presentation to a large number of individuals or casually sitting across from two people at a table, use the following tips to ensure your non-verbal ...
Views: 1380 - Giving Engaging Presentations: How to Read Your Audience - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2012 from Rita RockerIn Part 1, “Is that really ME giving that confident presentation?”, I covered some of the more physical and emotional characteristics for giving a confident presentation. Let’s talk about those silent, yet very loud, signals from your audience. These are indicators that tell you if they are ...
Views: 2016 - How to Successfully Create a Loyal Customer Base - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2011 from Rita RockerTo have a quality staff that respects themselves, their management and their customers, it is imperative to have a good internal customer service program in place. Remember: The attitude of your heart as a listener is always more important and more obvious than anything that you say in ...
Views: 1064 - Your Image Influences Your Level of Success - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2011 from Rita RockerIn a perfect world, success would have nothing to do with image. We all would be judged and promoted solely on the basis of performance, skills, talent, experience, creativity and willingness to work hard. There would be a tooth fairy too. Like it or not, the image we present greatly ...
Views: 1090 - Is that really ME giving a confident presentation? - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2011 from Rita RockerAre there actually more people in the world who are afraid of speaking in front of others than in dying? Yes, 54% of adults are more afraid of public speaking than death! What are we afraid of? Messing up? Being rejected? Feeling foolish? Unsure if our audience will think we don’t know what ...
Views: 1118 - The Art of Self-expression - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2011 from Rita RockerThe strongest message can be diluted by an inappropriate choice of words. Your message may not be perceived as confident or business-oriented as you really are. Remember, your message is three-fold: body signals (do they match what you’re saying?), tone of voice and choice of words. ...
Views: 1252 - Holiday Social Events--Do It With Pizzazz! - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2011 from Rita RockerHoliday Business Social Events - Do It With Pizzazz! How you speak, look and act at social events can have consequences on your career. Holiday parties are one of the most important places where executives and managers are rubbing elbows and where you may be seen by individuals that you may not ...
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