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- "How is it ?" - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2010 from Glenda Gibbs"How is it ?" Ponderings... by Glenda Gibbs How is it we view a doctor as God until he provokes us and then he's a quack? How is it we tell our children to be honest yet when we break the law or lie, our choices are exempt? How is it we endorse a professional athlete, a role model ...
Views: 2560(1 vote) - Bringing out the best - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2010 from Glenda GibbsBringing out the best Ponderings... by Glenda Gibbs Several years ago I was working with a couple who were deciding whether they wanted to continue their marriage or bring it to an end; they chose the latter. Both were concerned about the family gossip. They didn’t want to feed it so what ...
Views: 1776(1 vote) - Language is an expression of who we are and how we feel - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2010 from Glenda GibbsLanguage is an expression of who we are and how we feel Ponderings ... by Glenda Gibbs When my grandson was a little guy we shared a lot of time together. Occasionally he would come home from school expressing words eliciting an oh-my-gosh look response from me. Telling him it wasn’t nice ...
Views: 1883(3 votes) - Is Smiling Really That Big of a Deal? - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2009 from Glenda GibbsDid you know by smiling to the count of 60 - your energy/vibration can raise? I suppose this notion of mine is purely subjective - perhaps you'll read this and try it for yourself. Many years ago I learned by having visuals, (i.e., pictures) to trigger my inner happy button, I could raise ...
Views: 1627(1 vote) - A mother's letter to her adult daughter... - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2009 from Glenda GibbsA mother's letter to her adult daughter...by Glenda Gibbs Briefing - I had made an earlier request for help, to which my daughter didn't want to have anything to do with it. After sharing a few thoughts, I scripted the following and sent it. Note: With my daughter's permission and her name ...
Views: 50445(5 votes) - A Two-year Old Provides Us Metaphors to a Successful Life - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2009 from Glenda GibbsYesterday I shared my time with Benson, who is two. We were out doors where he has a big backyard to play in, a couple of Cocker Spaniels to play with – though he has little time for them as he’s more interested in duplicating his father’s actions. Benson grabbed my hand and led me to the ‘big ...
Views: 1945(1 vote) - Random musings about "faith" and Law of Attraction - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2009 from Glenda GibbsHave faith. Trust in a Universe that's endless and endlessly creating. Trust that the Creative Source of All knows exactly what It is doing. -Wayne Dyer Contemplating this .... faith A friend shared Law of Attraction (LOA) doesn't "work" for him. He says he doesn't have the faith in it and ...
Views: 1700 - He Who Buries His Head in The Sand is Apt to Get His Butt Kicked - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2009 from Glenda GibbsI recently had a conversation with someone who is experiencing turmoil in his life. Having a curious nature about me I asked what kept him in his uncomfortable situation. His response, “It’s comfortable and at least I know what’s going on, if I change I won’t know ...
Views: 1805(1 vote) - If You Could Have Just One Wish, What Would It Be? - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2009 from Glenda GibbsIf you could have just one wish … what would it be? A woman replied, “I want to be self confident.” She continues sharing, “I’m good at conversation, making people feel comfortable and accepted. Excellent mom and I have a quick dry sense of humor and a wonderful ...
Views: 1660 - Living Life or Waiting to Die? - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2009 from Glenda GibbsAn anonymous member writes: “I am going to give (name deleted) your phone number - it's her turn to take care of herself.” … when we have done everything we know (and God knows we give it everything) … except permission … permission to believe it’s okay to ...
Views: 2303 - Energy Flows Where Attention Goes... - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2009 from Glenda GibbsA member of a group that I manage said: "When we step back and view what is occurring from the bigger picture, we see very positive changes unfolding in many, many areas around the world." My response - “I agree!!!" Upon reading this, I’d like to hear your thoughts … Our ...
Views: 1485(1 vote) - Isn't it great to have choice!!! - by Submitted on May 06, 2008 from Glenda GibbsSpring is a great reminder of abundance - the sun's rays, blooming flowers amidst a plethora of green hues, sounds of birds and bees ... yes, there is abundance all about. This brings to mind the times where I've been so eager looking forward to spring and day after day I'd be looking for the ...
Views: 1262 - Ponderings ... Road Signs - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2008 from Glenda GibbsSome of us take those road signs for granted - maybe a bit presumptuous at times - such as a sign stating the speed limit. I ignore it and speed on by - - or how about not paying attention and missing the exit which perpetuates me backtracking. Such is life - or is it? With me being ...
Views: 1127 - Me And My Cats ... - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2008 from Glenda GibbsI have 3 cats. Mystery who is a male has been around for several years. He is big strong sleek solid short haired black cat. He will not allow anyone to touch him. He stays outside and hunts, eats and positions himself to make a quick exit. This guy is a loner. He used to hiss at me, with my ...
Views: 1083 - The Power Of Your Thoughts - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2008 from Glenda GibbsWe listen to our thoughts all of the time. Notice your thoughts – if your thoughts – go ahead and quickly close your eyes and notice your inner dialogue. Are your thoughts supportive and in alignment with your idea of happiness and in pursuit of your goals? Or are they more ...
Views: 1082 - Surrender Is Trust ... - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2008 from Glenda GibbsI’m a bit philosophical today. Last week I was driving my caravan and a young and inexperienced driver decided to turn in front of me, literally. There was no where to go. I surrendered the wheel and allowed the incident to happen without me trying to stop it. Both air bags deployed(that ...
Views: 1212 - Those Sunday Talkers ... - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Glenda GibbsLive forgiveness every day rather than just talk about it on Sunday. – Author unknown Those Sunday talkers… In addition to practicing forgiveness, a person who practices acceptance, being accountable and emulating love, is authentic. As a kid and as a young adult I could never ...
Views: 1144 - Remember That Happy Feeling? ... - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Glenda GibbsBack to baking those cookies, aside from the holiday baking, I make cookies every week. Until this year I’ve baked for Bryce and his classmates; this year Miss Chan began first grade and she decided that she too wanted Grama Sweetheart to deliver cookies to her and her classmates. It goes ...
Views: 1029 - Is It Greater To Give Than Receive? - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Glenda GibbsLet’s presuppose you believe that it’s greater to give than to receive. With this practice there are at least two participants, a giver and a receiver. You might recall a time when you gave something to someone and they were very pleased with your gift. You felt like a million bucks. Let’s ...
Views: 1014 - Life Is An Interesting Journey... - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Glenda GibbsI’ve been using The Law of Attraction (The main concept taught in "The Secret") in my life for many years; it’s been an interesting journey. The Secret teaches we need to change our thoughts from negative to positive to obtain our goals. While I agree, that process by itself isn’t always enough ...
Views: 1521 - Just A Story - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2007 from Glenda GibbsJust A Story … Driving down the road with your eyes on the rearview mirror… Imagine being in your car, just driving down the road. Instead of looking at what’s in front of you, your eyes are on the rearview mirror. Scary thought, huh! Yet we do it. Sometimes, no most of the time, we do it ...
Views: 922 - The Pendulum Swings - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2007 from Glenda GibbsWhen I decided to leave the Midwest and return to my home state of Oregon I was heart broke and expecting my oldest daughter. My mother insisted that I come home. Even at twenty one I let her make many decisions for me, especially regarding the relationship between my daughter and her father. ...
Views: 1419 - What You Don't Own, Owns You - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2007 from Glenda GibbsWhat You Don’t Own, Owns You Now be with me here. I’m about to offer information that might seem a bit out there. Yes, you can delete the whole notion however I encourage you to ponder it. Bring to mind something that pushes your buttons. These emotions (feelings) are evidence ...
Views: 1092 - The Correlation - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2007 from Glenda GibbsYesterday was a great day! Not that all days are great in one way or another, yesterday brought an inner smile. I’ve been baking cookies for my grandson Bryce and his classmates since first grade. He’s now in fifth. Every Friday I’ve watched his eyes light up as I appeared with another batch ...
Views: 1031 - A Pushed Button - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2007 from Glenda GibbsDoes this sound familiar? “I think I feel ____.” This is impossible. There are facts and feelings. We can’t think how we feel. Until I learned this, I was really good at thinking how I felt or so I thought. Over time and many experiences, I developed a shell to protect me from the pains of the ...
Views: 1101(1 vote) - What You Don't Own, Owns You - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2007 from Glenda GibbsHappy New Year! How are you? Have you declared your New Year’s resolution? Are you going to be one of the majorities who decide after three months your New Year’s resolution isn’t working for you? Or are you the exception? If you are, chances are you are aware of the benefits of selecting a ...
Views: 2061 - Ponderings ... Am I looking for what’s right? - by Submitted on May 07, 2007 from Glenda GibbsAm I looking for what’s right? Most of us find it real easy to look for what’s wrong. It’s a way of looking at things that we think is ‘normal’ patterned to us by family, friends, our community and our society. We can find all the wrong there is in our jobs, relationships, our government, our ...
Views: 1066 - How do you seek validation? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2004 from Glenda GibbsWe all have a need for validation -- being told a job was well done or being told that we are valued, wanted or attractive. Some people have a greater need to be validated than others. Do you find yourself being drawn to situations or experiences in life where you feel needed? Check the ...
Views: 7537 - Sunshine and smiles are everywhere… Where's yours? - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2004 from Glenda GibbsSunshine and smiles are everywhere… Where's yours? It's there I know it is! See… Life is too short to be complacent and accept life-suck moments as reality. Yet as I write this, I know of many who are caught in this limiting belief. I used to be. It doesn't have to be that way! The matrix ...
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