If you have a new guy in your life and are in the early stages of courtship, chances are good you will be texting him and he will be texting you. Flirty texting is fun, but if you aren't careful, you can unknowingly put a huge damper on his attraction.

If he is pulling away from you, one of the reasons might be because you are unknowingly killing his attraction for you. Many women are unaware how they do it. They just get more and more antsy as they hear from the guy they like less and less until he totally disappears into thin air (find out other reasons why he is pulling away).

Here's 5 tips on how to be sexy, fun and flirty to a guy through texting:

Tip #1: Let the guy chase you by letting him text you first

I know it's very tempting to just fire away a text message -what's the harm, right? You're just being friendly- but it's the best piece of advice I can give you if you really want to attract a guy and not chase him away.

Why? Because guys are wired to do one primary thing when they meet a girl they are attracted to - and that one thing is to chase them.

If you send that cute guy the first text, you're going to mess around with his natural instincts. You will become the "chaser" and that will make you less attractive in his mind. You will turn him off and chase him away. Here are more tips on calling, texting and emailing guys without making them think you are too needy and available.

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Tip #2: Text him only as often as he texts you or less. Leave him with wanting more

Most girls make the mistake of texting a guy way too much. That's a big turn off.

Tip #3: When you do get a text from that hunk, keep your texts short

Girls are naturally more talkative than guys. Texting is not for long conversations, just short messages you can use to build attraction. Leave the conversations for the phone and face to face time. You don't want a virtual relationship do you?

Tip #4: Keep your texts fun and flirty. Yes, you must FLIRT, FLIRT AND FLIRT SOME MORE!

Keep your texts fun and flirty, not dirty. Don't be overly sexual because you'll position yourself as a booty call.

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Tip #5: End the text convo first

When you are into texting back and forth and you suddenly text: "Hey gotta go. Text me later." You have left a guy totally off balance.

He might be thinking, "Was she upset with me? Did another hot guy approach her? When does she want me to text her?" You become totally in control and the guy is going to have to step it up a bit to keep your attention. You are a challenge to him and he loves it!

Use these 5 texting tips effectively and you will have more guys than you know what to do with chasing you and wanting to take you out on sexy and fun dates.

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And to end this article, I'd like to bring to your attention that even though many women have to apply self-restraint when it comes to texting, the irony is you can actually attract him back using text messages too. Isn't it neat?

Author's Bio: 

This article is one of the breakup series I write. Please check my author page for more articles on the subejct or join me in my ex-back support group and relationship forum for more tips on how to deal with your breakup and how to get yourself on the path of getting your love and your life back. Please also follow me on facebook: http://www.facebook.com/katarina.phang for my daily nuggets of reflections/insights/advice and tips on attracting and maintaining a lasting relationship and fixing a broken one.

Katarina Phang is an author, love/life coach specializing on reuniting couples and curing troubled relationship. She founded a free ex-back support group and relationship forum http://gettheloveyoudeserve.info.