So, what is the story that YOU tell about YOUR life? Are you telling the story of what IS or do you tell the story of what is BECOMING? Remember, the Law of Attraction brings to you what you focus upon, whether it's wanted or not. You cannot continue to beat the drum of what is and expect what is to change to what you want it to be. It simply does not work that way. You must begin to tell the story of how you want things to be. Now, this isn't always an easy thing to do as what "is" can be smacking us in the face on a day to day basis. For example, let's say you're looking to bring a loving relationship into your life. Yet you keep talking about how all the guys/gals you meet don't measure up to your expectations. What is happening here is that you are vibrating the very essence of what you DO NOT want to attract because you haven't cleaned up your vibration. You continue to beat the drum of what IS rather than setting your intention on what you want.

So, how do you clean up your vibration and attract that loving relationship? You begin by recognizing that all those "negative" dates helped you to further refine what you
DO want and you make peace with otherwords, you appreciate all those "bad" dates for the clarity they gave you. Then, when people ask or you talk about your experiences, you do so from the perspective of what is becoming. As an example, you could say something like: "I like getting out and meeting people and each encounter
brings me closer to that loving relationship that is en route to me."

The bottom line here is that you cannot continue to moan, groan and complain about what IS and expect what IS to change for you. You MUST shift your perspective to what CAN be, see the positive in all experiences so that each one can bring you that one step closer to where you want to be. Talk about how great everything is becoming for you. Know that it's on its way to you because the more you talk
about what you WANT, by LAW, it must come to you!

If telling your story as you want it to be is difficult for you, then I invite you to schedule your free Discovery Session with me today and let's discover ways you can tell your story that will empower you!

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About Elaine

Rev. Elaine C. Torrance-Gingrich is the founder of Avalonian Moon LLC, a company devoted to teaching women who are facing the challenges and transitions of midlife, how to develop and strengthen their connection to their own Inner Goddess so they can create their most magnificent life with more abundance, laughter and magic.

Through her coaching programs, Elaine mentors her clients to make peace with where they are, see the possibilities for where they can go, believe in themselves, and to have fun along the way. Her overall mission is to empower fun and possibilities.

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