If someone were to think about something that they wanted to attain or experience, they could soon think about what it is that they need to do to achieve their goal. So, a number of steps could enter their mind, and, before long, they could take the first step.

As the days, weeks and perhaps months pass, they can see how far they have come and how close they are to having what they want. Further, they could generally be full of self-belief and know that it’s only a matter of time before they hit their target.

A Smooth process

Assuming that this does take place, they could end up having even more self-belief and think about what they would like to achieve next. This could show that they are used to achieving their goals.

Alternatively, they could take action but find that they are unable to make much progress. Or, they could end up making progress and even getting close to their goal, only to end up going backwards.

A Frustrating Experience

Due to this, even if they started off feeling confident and believed that they had what it takes to achieve their goal, they will now be in a very different place. This might not be the first time that this has taken place either, with them continually ending up in this position.

What could make this harder to handle is that there could be people in their life who don’t appear to have the same issue. They could come to the conclusion that someone or something ‘out there’ is holding them back.

Another Angle

However, although it may seem as though someone or something ‘out there’ is holding them back or that they are simply unlucky, what if there is more to it? What if what is going on within them is what is actually holding them back?

What this comes down to is that it is not just what they do that defines what they experience; this is just one part. What is going on for them internally is the other part, with this being the most important.

Two Parts

When they think about what they want to achieve, their mind will create the impression that it is ‘out there’. Based on this, they are separate from what they want and need to do the right things to attain it.

In reality, this is an illusion that their mind creates as they are not separate from anyone or anything. And, as they are not separate from what they want to attain, it means that the doing part is only part of what will allow them to have what they want.

The Other Part

Along with what they do, their inner world will need to energetically align with what it is that they want. As, in addition to them not being separate from anyone or anything, they, along with everyone and everything ’out there’, are made up of vibrating energy.

Therefore, although they, and everyone and everything else, will appear to be solid, this is not the case. This is why they can do all the right things but if they are not vibrating at the same frequency as what they want to attain, they won’t be able to achieve their goal or if they do, they won’t be able to sustain it for very long.

The Next Step

If they are on board with this and are able to accept that they and everyone and everything else is made up of vibrating energy, they could wonder how they can energetically align themselves with what it is that they want to attain. Right now, this could appear to be something that is more or less impossible.

But, while this may appear to be impossible, they simply need to use their imagination. By imagining what it would be like to have what they want, they will be energetically aligning themselves with what they want.

All the Parts

This will then be a time when all their senses are involved, and they will think and feel as though they already have what they want. They will then be resonating at the same frequency as what they want to attain or experience.

Their mind could kick in at this point and say that they are imagining something that is not real. Nonetheless, this doesn’t matter as there is only the now moment, which is why they have to imagine that they already have what they want to attain or are experiencing what they want to experience.


Naturally, as their mind creates the impression that there is a past, present and future, it is to be expected that this part of them would struggle to accept that there is only now. And, by using their imagination in this way and energetically aligning with what they want to attain or experience, what they want will start to want them.

This is not something that they will need to do once and that’s the end of it, though; they will need to continually do this. If they start to notice that they are getting frustrated and are strongly attached to having or experiencing something, this will create a block as they will no longer be energetically aligned.


The other part of this will be for them to take inspired action, as opposed to action that is coming from a place of desperation or force. Additionally, they may have emotional wounds to face and resolve.

The reason for this is that they don’t just begin and end with their conscious mind and what is going on for them at a deeper level can hold them back. For example, deep down, they might not feel safe enough or worthy of having or experiencing something.

Author's Bio: 

Author, transformational writer, teacher and consultant, Oliver JR Cooper, hails from England. His insightful commentary and analysis covers all aspects of human transformation, including love, partnership, self-love, self-worth, enmeshment, inner child, true self and inner awareness. With over three thousand, two hundred in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behaviour, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice.

To find out more go to - http://www.oliverjrcooper.co.uk/

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