Men are visual creatures, while looks will get you in the door, in the long run it is emotional attraction that will keep him glued to you.

What is emotional attraction to a man? It is everything in a woman that makes him feel supported, accepted and respected because all of that is the embodiment of love to him. She is an oasis to him, the source of life that brings beauty and serenity in the mostly troubled world he battles in.

Even the most liberal tree-hugging alpha male will tell you -if he's totally honest- that he dislikes ball-busting, in-yer-face alpha female who challenges him and his manhood at every turn, who doesn't display her feminine qualities -that he and his buddies don't share- most of the time. It doesn't mean he doesn't value your intellect (quite the contrary), it's just he prefers a woman who's happy being a woman with her soft, yielding side

Men could actually care less about a woman's high intellect, fiscal fitness or success in her career. He's looking for a partner with whom he can be safe being his true self with his vulnerabilities (and he has a lot), a sanctuary he goes home to and rests from the burden of the competitive world he lives is. He needs a woman to give him everything his male world isn't.  If a woman realizes this principle, she won't feel the need to be competitive with her man.

To understand what makes men tick: what attract and repel them, Check this out 

You will learn the ultimate solution to the puzzle why he disappears or break up with you and what you can do to prevent that once and for all.

Another thing that every woman needs to know is that this simple fact that men RARELY pull away from you because of loss of interest.

In fact...

He can be DEEPLY in love with you and still pull away...or worse... leave the relationship all together!

Is He Pulling Away? Bring Him Back From The Brink

Oh really??? How do you explain that, you surely have that gnawing question in your mind, right?

And how's that supposed to make you feel better?

Here's how...

Men pull away for 4 very distinct reasons...

Learn more about WHY MEN PULL AWAY and how to read his mind.

Once you understand WHY he pulls away, it's much EASIER to see how you should react when he does pull away.

But that's not even the best part...

The powerful part is BECAUSE now you know he's not pulling away because he's less interested...

You'll avoid overcompensating, which means you avoid him pulling away FURTHER.

Make sense?

What you need to do is to become a woman he can't afford to lose. It's not about doing, it's mostly about what not to do. In this article I outline the seven traits of a high-value woman that will make him mushy inside.

Author's Bio: 

This article is one of the breakup series I write. Please check my author page for more articles on the subejct or join me in my ex-back support group and relationship forum for more tips on how to deal with your breakup and how to get yourself on the path of getting your love and your life back. Please also follow me on facebook: for my daily nuggets of reflections/insights/advice and tips on attracting and maintaining a lasting relationship and fixing a broken one.

Katarina Phang is an author, love/life coach specializing on reuniting couples and curing troubled relationship. She founded a free ex-back support group and relationship forum