There comes a time when you have to make someone miss you to death.
Sometimes, the best way to show someone that they were wrong about you is to shine your light and make them understand your value. We often get caught up doing this the wrong way, though.
Let’s talk about how to make a man miss you, giving you some insight into healthy ways that you can boost yourself up while making your partner wish they'd known better.

How to Make a Man Miss You the Right Way

Naturally, different situations require different approaches. Some of the ways you can make a person miss you after a breakup wouldn't apply to methods you'd use while you were still dating, for example.
We're going to break down our methods into two categories: what to do when you've broken up, and what to do when there's a distance between the two of you.
These are two fundamentally different approaches, and it's important to note the difference. Making someone miss you after a breakup isn't so much about revenge as it is establishing your worth and displaying it for all to see.
Making someone miss you while you're still dating is more of a tender and romantic gesture that requires a different skill set. With those things in mind, let's look at the right way to make him miss you after a breakup.

What to Do After a Breakup

It often happens that we break up with someone and it doesn't feel right. It feels like there was a misunderstanding, and maybe the other person just forgot what it felt like to love you when you were at your best.
Other times, we break up for the right reasons, and it's important to understand that distinction. If someone treated you badly, you don't need them in your life. Physical and emotional abuse are things that should cut potential partners out of the running immediately.
If you're still in love with a man that was good to you, though, there are some excellent ways to make him remember how important you are.

Work on Yourself

First and foremost, take this time to treat your body and mind like temples. Independence, however brief, can give us the space to work on ourselves and make improvements that didn't seem possible before. Start reading about relationships, learning new things, and developing your skills.
Get into shape and start eating right. Not for him or anyone else, but for the fact that it will benefit your mind and sense of self. Not to mention you'll feel a lot more confident as you start to see results and your mood improves.
Evaluate your finances and start making the right moves with your money. Become an independent person who not only gets by but has the attitude needed to thrive.
Generally, just do what you know is right for you. Don't do it in a relaxed way either. Do it with all of your heart and start feeling the way you know you can.
There's nothing more attractive than a person who is happy, on top of their life, and confident about who they are and what they're doing.

Enjoy Your Freedom

You're single for the time being, whether you like to admit it or not.
That comes with certain freedoms that tend to make men extremely uncomfortable with their decision to leave. We're not saying to go out every night and wake up in a different bed each morning, but there's nothing wrong with exploring your freedom.
If he happens to find out about that freedom from a friend, there's a big chance he'll start rethinking things.
This can be a slippery slope, though. Rebounding can be dangerous in the sense that we're supplementing self-worth through physical attraction, and that's not in line with what's best for you.
Try to balance your personal growth with the amount of fun you're having, and keep things moving forward. If you can pull these things off in a mature way, there's no man that wouldn't be beating himself up forever for leaving you behind.

While You're Still Together

Long-distance relationships are a difficult thing to pull off.
Distance just exposes all of the insecurities and troubles that existed deep within your relationship all along. In that way, it can be a good thing. Those issues only get worse as time moves along, and it's healthy to identify them.
At the same time, you may find that the person you're with starts to drift. It can seem like he's forgotten about you or doesn't care as much. Here's how to deal with it.

Write Him a Letter

Letters seem old-fashioned, but they're one of the most romantic gestures you can give someone. A handwritten letter can express so much more than a type-font ever could.
Write a couple of drafts, express how you feel, draw pictures if you have the inclination to, and send it away without letting him know. It's something that he can actually hold and think about.
On the other hand, a text diminishes in value right after it's read. A letter gets more and more precious with time.

Lay Off a Little

It can get tough to put down the phone when you're in a long-distance relationship. Similarly, it's hard to stop picking at problems when you notice separation occurring.
If you want to make him miss you, though, try backing off and allowing the space to work its magic. The distance can only make the heart grow fonder if it isn't filled with angry chatter and arguments.
Do your best to work on yourself and become the person that you want to be. Again, there's nothing more attractive than someone who is fully in-tune with who they are and what they do.
As you start to establish the fact that you're on your own, things will start to sift around in your man's brain and he'll start missing you, guaranteed.

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Once you know how to make a man miss you, you have to know how to move forward with the relationship. It can be a hard thing to do, but there's a method to the madness.
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