OK, you have just met a new single girl recently and got her phone number.
Now its time to make that all important first phone call to
her. Are you prepared to make a good impression on her so she will be interested in dating you?
Guys, I just can't stress to you enough how important that
first phone call to a woman is and you will be judged on what you say and how you act towards her. When making that first phone call I know you're going to be a little nervous, but don't screw it up!
Let me give you a few pointers to insure your success in
making a favorable first impression when making that first
phone call:
1. Whatever you do, don't call when you're tired or fatigued. You won't be able to think straight and you won't be mentally sharp. You're personality is just not at its best when you are tired. Plus, it will show up in your voice too.
2. Turn off any radio or TV in the background. This is
considered rude when trying to talk to someone. You want her undivided attention, with no distractions.
3. Please, please, please don't drink 3 or 4 beers to get up your courage to make that first phone call. You're really going to make a bad impression by coming across as drunk.
4. Don't eat, chew ice, or smoke while talking to her.
5. Speak clearly - don't mumble or whisper.
6. Don't start every other sentence with..."uh."
And, my last piece of advice is the most important one.
Here's what I would do before calling her: I would get out a note pad and write out what I wanted to say to her, what
questions I wanted to ask her (be sure and don't sound like
you are interviewing her for a job), and topics of
conversation to discuss. That way, I would never be at loss
for words when talking to her.
I would also take notes on our conversation. I would write
down things she was interested in, her hobbies, her personal and career goals, things she likes to do on her days off from work, places she like to visit, her favorite
restaurants, places she likes to go on vacation, etc.
What's the purpose of this? This way you'll know what things she likes to talk about. People always love to talk about things that they are interested in. Plus, it can give you some ideas on where to take her for a date.
This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com - This article is copyright (c) 2005 by Don Diebel and may be reprinted in it's entirety as long as his website, byline, and copyright statement is included.
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